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What does it mean when you have a dream of a dream?

Sunday, February 7th, 2010

What does it mean when you have a dream of a dream?
Roslyn

Dear Roslyn,

At times you may dream you are asleep and wake within the dream. Generally speaking, to dream you are dreaming is to say that you are not awake…as in, unaware or not paying attention to this situation. Your higher consciousness is trying to stress the importance of the message, so be sure to give it your full attention.

Another cause for dreaming about dreaming is called “lucid” dreaming where you are aware that you are dreaming and can now interact within your dreams. I’ll write more about this in future blogs.

God Bless
Dr Kathy




A real demonic attack in dreams…

Friday, July 10th, 2009

With Written consent from the Author and Demonologist expert, Kenneth Deel, I’d like to share an article he wrote on his blog about spiritual sexual attacks. The original print can be found at: http://swordsofsaintmichael.ning.com/forum/topics/incubus-attacks-how-they

INCUBUS ATTACKS – HOW THEY BEGIN by Kenneth Deel
(common ways a demon can be ‘invited’ into your lives.

People whom are committed by some form with vows to God, through matrimony or even holy orders (Monk, nun or Priest) for example, are likely going to be ‘tested’ this way at some point in their lives.

I can say they find important to ‘distract’ and disrupt families and those in the holy orders. Because as it may result in tearing a family apart and less priest, monks nuns, this in itself is another victory for Satan and his minions to succeed. So it isn’t just about the person alone when it can profoundly affect others. We must remember that “Sex” is so often used as a demonic tool to bring down the greatest of faith in Men and Women.

INCUBUS ENCOUNTERS: HOW IT MAY BEGIN
As most all of the cases of sexual attacks we deal with involve women, I will focus on “incubus” encounters.

Women particularly, might take an interest in Harlequin Novels, and many “Chick flicks’ which stirs the fantasizing about an affair, or Casanova coming to pay a romantic visit. Dr. Ruth I heard saying on Jay Leno one night that it is ‘OK’ to fantasize’, which is totally untrue, even from a purely psychological standpoint.

Always kill the seeds of thought that could lead to sin, don’t give it a moment, a second, put it out of your mind immediately. Don’t kindle it with more. If you find that reading romance novels for example, begins an unhealthy thought of an affair stop reading it, don’t expose yourself to it any longer.

For men, we seem to be more visual, and a direct avoidance of MTV and Porno sites, is a way to divert from stronger temptations. For the Gals, I feel the novels and movies are more cleverly disguised as a “drama’, when they can so much serve to allure to unhealthy fantasies that can be destructive to their marriages.

THE DREAMS FOLLOW
Often you may dream of an alluring, handsome or beautiful “stranger” in your dream and not know this is step one in a potential Incubus/succubus attack. In the dream *if* you realize you are married for example, and go through with the temptation urges, although you have not committed adultery, it has been entertained through deeper thoughts at this point.

The person will likely also be aware they had this dream, and depending on how they react in remembering, it can dictate how it will progress further.

If they feel guilt, and remorse, “Feel horrible” this is good, if they think about it and it excites them, and they think about it all day for example. This gives way to the next step, a physical encounter. Typically the strange visitor might return in dreams a few times, to further fuel the fantasy, but the next stage will again “test the waters”, they might have the dream again, awake and feel a hand touching their leg.

Note this does not accompany a presence of ‘evil’ or cold, some telltale signs of demons; after all it is trying to play “Casanova” in this scenario so it remains in disguise. Again here this can repeat several times, and over several nights or just weekly. It varies accordingly to the person’s faith, and how the person is becoming “Obsessed” with this Casanova encounter.

The next phase will go a step further, sort of like the young teenager trying to get further with his date each week. Touching the legs may come next or the covers being pulled off slowly.

From there into next phases, the person may not have foolishly be alert enough to take action with prayers for example. Some invite it further. The key is they leave themselves open, and willingly the “free-will” again plays a vital role here. The intention is there in the heart to invite a Casanova, and “be careful what you wish for,” The gentle lover might come calling one night, and at some point it turns to violence and rape, showing their true side.

Interestingly, there are many indications a human spirit, a minion of devils might be the first encounters, and the ‘other’ is the actual demon when it becomes more ‘intimate’.
Regardless we call it “demonic’ since the entities are working with demons and the devil which are essentially evil in nature even if they don’t at first project to be. They are wolves disguised in sheep clothing.

Just as humans, a ‘nice guy’ at the later can turn to a domestic abuse case, the darker side dictates what and who they really are.

On a last note how far this goes depends on the persons faith, it won’t happen in to these stages for everyone, if they dabble in practices that open the doors by other means it will happen much faster. At a (evil) haunted location, faster by default. The demonic presence is already their, where in lesser stages, it has to progress to a manifestation before getting to an actual “physical touch.”

(c) 2009 Kenneth Deel/ Swords of Saint Michael Apostolate

For more information on this Author and his book “The Catholic Demonologist Handbook”
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Dreams and Sleep have meaning!

Wednesday, June 17th, 2009

Dreams and Sleep have meaning!!
By TIFFANY SHARPLES @ Time Magazine

An interesting article on “Dreams and Sleep” from Time Magazine which was published on Yahoo.com as front cover news. Here is the link: http://news.yahoo.com/s/time/20090616/hl_time/08599190456100

Dreams may not be the secret window into the frustrated desires of the unconscious that Sigmund Freud first posited in 1899, but growing evidence suggests that dreams - and, more so, sleep - are powerfully connected to the processing of human emotions.

According to new research presented last week at the annual meeting of the Associated Professional Sleep Societies in Seattle, adequate sleep may underpin our ability to understand complex emotions properly in waking life. “Sleep essentially is resetting the magnetic north of your emotional compass,” says Matthew Walker, director of the Sleep and Neuroimaging Lab at the University of California, Berkeley….

Follow Link for the rest of the research findings: http://news.yahoo.com/s/time/20090616/hl_time/08599190456100




Dream About President Obama

Wednesday, May 27th, 2009

Dear Dr Kathy,
Please interpret my dream for me. I am in the process of opening a bakery and I’m a nervous wreck. I love working in the kitchen but I’m uncomfortable about working the counter. I hired a woman to help me that is very sociable, unlike me. I feel like God is trying to tell me something. Anyway here is the dream:

I was in a classroom, there were about 6-8 students there. President Obama was the teacher. He had handed out a test for the class, and the test was about being able to identify characteristics of rabbits? (this part I am not 100% sure of-can’t remember) as I was not listening in the dream cuz I was too focused on me being worried about not knowing what was going on). He wasn’t getting my full attention cuz I was too worried about the position I was in. All I knew was that I had not been to this class for the first 2 weeks and was just coming in, so I was lost in whatever was being taught let alone ready for a test.

Everyone needed a piece of paper and I had none, there was this guy with glasses on and had wavy blonde hair, another student in the class, never seen him before. He looked at me like that was a “special request” and said, this paper I have is special, it is much bigger then the average notebook paper, I had it specailly made, and he ripped a piece of of his notebook and showed me, and I said, wow, yes it is much bigger and he gave it to me. I was a little worried that I had this big piece of paper and that it would not cause problems handing it in as it was not the nomal size and worried that it would not draw attention to me.(I was standing as the other girl was, everyone else was sitting at a long table w/chairs in rows) There was also another girl there standing to my left in the same predicament. Then they started the test Pres Obama (the teacher) Looked over to me and then to that girl and he smiled at me and said come here, cuz he knew we didn’t know what to do, and i looked at him in a way that said, “do I really want to go to you as I will get in trouble joking around with him w/body language.I did go to him and he said you haven’t been to this class for 2 weeks, I thought you were dropping it, I said things changed I want to go now, he said, you do realize that you have a lot of catching up to do and are way behind. I said, I know, but I can do it.
Thank you in advance for your help.
Robin J

Dear Robin,
Thank you for sharing your dream with us and thank you for answering my questions regarding your dream. The interpretation is below:

Being in a classroom automatically tells me you have some things to learn. Meeting a famous person (such as the President) is one of the many ways in which dreams can tell us of talents, abilities or character traits we didn’t realize we had. Ask yourself what is this person famous for? What talents or characteristics do you identify with? This person represents the talents, qualities, abilities, possibilities, or flaws which you have within you. You might want to do some research on the president and learn more about yourself while learning about him. However, in this dream it is pointing to his leadership skills and how he interacts with the public. You have this ability but you fear your public. Face the fear and meet your public who awaits you.

“He had handed out a test for the class, and the test was
about being able to identify characteristics of rabbits?”

You mentioned (in your email to me) that you are kinda shy and like to hide out of site. This would explain the “rabbit.” One characteristic of rabbits is to hide or be still (freeze) hoping not to be seen. This would be a character flaw in your case. To be a successful business owner, you’ll want to meet your public and they’ll want to meet you too.

In the dream you are not paying attention to what he was trying to teach you because of the unnecessary worry about things you have no control over. The other reason you may not want to listen is because he is teaching you how to be a leader and to face your public. (Not something you want to hear).

RUNNING BEHIND & NOT PREPARED, This is the Bakery. You are opening later then you had planned and You are not yet prepared for the opening date. The larger piece of paper given to you just means you have a longer list of things that need to be done, business decisions that need to be made, lessons to be learned, ideas, opinions, talents, gifts, thoughts, hopes, dreams, desires etc.. The lessons you learn, the notes you take are special and important things to remember…so write them down.

Being nervous about starting a new business can be nerve wracking but your lack of confidence will draw more attention then what you really have to offer. Do you think having gifts, talents and leadership skills might draw attention to you?….yep, you betcha. You are a born leader, like it or not. You may not be prepared for the attention, but its coming anyway.

“I was standing as the other girl was, everyone else was sitting at a long table w/chairs in rows)”…This indicates that You need to take a stand and be the leader and the one who delegates to staff. Sitting around a table with others is sharing different perspectives, planning, decision making, compromising, negotiating, working as a team rather than fighting against one another. Its important that all co-workers know what is expected of them and that you can work as a team.

This bakery is a lot like Obama going into the white house…not sure what to expect and a list of unfinished business to deal with.

“There was also another girl there standing to my left in the same predicament. ”

This is your partner in the business who is different then you but who also compliments you because she is a social person. Together you have balance BUT both of you lack some business skills. Developing a business plan is your best bet for now, so you have some direction as to where you want to start first and where you want to be in the weeks, months ahead.

“When they started the test Pres Obama (the teacher) Looked over to me and then to that girl and he smiled at me and said come here, cuz he knew we didn’t know what to do, and I looked at him in a way that said, “do I really want to go to you as I will get in trouble joking around with him w/body language.”

You use humor to avoid the fear rather then facing it boldly. Stop procrastinating and get going. You will learn more on the job as you go. The fact that you did go to him was a step forward in the right direction, its facing the fear. There was a point 2 weeks ago when you wanted to quit, throw in the towel and sell the bakery, but today you are about to open and face your public.

“I said things changed I want to go now, he said, you do realize that you have a lot of catching up to do and are way behind.”

You have decided to keep the bakery and move forward with it knowing you lack a business plan. You’ll need to catch up by setting some goals, learning all the aspects of business, marketing, retail, payroll etc.

“I said, I know, but I can do it.” You can indeed do this with some team work and prioritizing your goals.

Best of luck to you!

Sincerely

DrKathy




Dream/s about a Broken Marriage

Wednesday, April 1st, 2009

Dear Dr Kathy

DREAM 1
I kept dreaming this one over and over throughout the night, I kept seeing a very old and worn out flattened mattress on top of a grave stone in a cemetery, a full size mattress. It was the type of stone that laid flat on the ground and covers the whole area like a mattress would. In between the two was the color red.Yet I could still see the stone underneath. Grass was green around it and weather was nice.

DREAM 2
Another dream the same night, was I was catching these wild snowshoe hares w/a live trap and
getting them for their fur, working hard at it. (I can’t really kill animals just for their fur, I feel bad about the ones I have and had nothing to do with their deaths).

DREAM 3
Then the dream switched to me & the kids & my Husband were traveling in a big camper pulling a horse trailer w/our horses and going a long long way, home to MO I think. My husband was driving, and I had been sleeping and looked out to see where we were, we were in MN in one of my favorite small towns (passing through) Then I thought to myself, wow we’re almost there, good.

(The small tavern there serves the best chicken and french fries in the world, I make a point to stop there whenever I have been in the area, we went there our whole lives when we lived here, my mom & I went a lot. It holds some good memories with her and was always a “TREAT” to get out and go there, even though she had to drink, I still got my chicken. This town never grew, and the next town from it was my favorite town growing up and it blew up into a huge city now and I hate it.

But, in reality we were not heading towards MO, it was “the opposite way” I don’t enjoy traveling long distance driving at all. I went to see how my husband was doing driving, and I passed in front of a door mirror. I had on this horrid brightly colored sweatshirt with hideous pinks, reds, purples, yellow and with a pink colored type of sweat pants (Something I would NEVER wear-UGLY!). The shirt pulled tight across my belly and you could see my roll, as I passed in front of the mirror I seen that and thought-I wonder if my husband Pat sees this roll like I do?

I then went on to where he was, he was standing in the middle of the drivers room, and I said,
who is driving? He said I am, he had his left arm up and was moving his hand like he was holding on to an invisible steering wheel (Like you would do in a video game) and that was how he was driving, I knew then he had been driving for so long he knew where to put the wheel without having to be at the wheel. I had confidence in him in the way he was driving, just surprised at the method he was using, seems kinda dangerous to me.

The outside was extremely cold, windy, snow, barren again. When i did look out of the window I seen a snowshoe Hare stuck on a post along side the high way, someone trapped it and hung it there-like people leave bags of garbage they pick up along the side. I thought to myself, I would use that rabbit instead of it going to waste, and hey…that is a good idea to metal trap them, faster then live trapping them.

Thank you in advance,
Rene
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DEAR RENE,

LOOKING AT THESE DREAMS BELOW, I FEEL THEY RELATE TO YOUR MARRIAGE.

DREAM1:
A DOUBLE MATTRESS INDICATES YOUR MARITAL STATE AND THE MATTRESS SYMBOLIZES
THE FOUNDATION OF THE RELATIONSHIP. AS YOU HAVE GUESSED, ITS NOT SO GOOD. IT APPEARS YOU ARE TRYING TO BEAT A DEAD HORSE. (THE MATTRESS IS IN A GRAVE YARD WHERE THE “DEAD” REST.) YOU MENTIONED THAT YOU LOVE GRAVEYARDS WHICH INDICATES TO ME THAT YOU STILL LOVE YOUR HUSBAND…BUT THERE IS ANGER AND RESENTMENT THAT KEEP YOU SEPARATED EMOTIONALLY AND INTIMATELY…(COLOR RED= ANGER, RESENTMENT).

THERE IS STILL LIFE AROUND THE GRAVE SITE WHICH MEANS THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE. THE WARNING HERE IS, IF YOU DON’T START COMMUNICATING, YOUR MARRIAGE WILL COME TO AN END. HOWEVER…I’M NOT CONVINCED THAT YOUR HUSBAND IS READY TO COMMUNICATE, NOR DOES HE WANT TO CHANGE….ITS JUST TOO HARD, TOO MUCH WORK, HE MAY HAVE ALREADY GIVEN UP?

I’M NOT TELLING YOU ANYTHING YOU DON’T ALREADY KNOW, CORRECT?

DREAM 2

THIS DREAM TELLS ME YOU ARE THE ONE FEELING TRAPPED. YOU HAVE REPRESSED EMOTIONS TOWARDS YOUR HUSBAND THAT NEED TO BE EXPRESSED. YOU HAVE TRIED TO TALK BUT YOU FEEL ITS A WASTE OF TIME. HIS SPIRITUAL DEPRESSION/DEATH HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. ITS NOT YOUR FAULT EVEN THOUGH ITS DIFFICULT TO WATCH. YOUR HUSBAND HAS TO WANT TO WORK ON HIS ISSUES IN ORDER TO HEAL. NOTHING YOU DO WILL FIX HIM. HE HAS TO WANT TO BE FIXED.

DREAM 3

THE TRAILER SYMBOLIZES THE “BIG LOAD” YOU HAUL AROUND WITH YOU JUST TRYING TO
MANAGE YOUR HUSBAND, THE KIDS AND THE FARM ANIMALS. (He was driving) HE HAS CHOSEN HIS OWN DESTINY APART FROM YOURS….

(and I had been sleeping and looked out to see where we were),,, YOU ARE UNAWARE OF WHAT YOUR HUSBAND WANTS OR NEEDS BECAUSE HE DOESN’T TALK, YOU JUST KNOW SOMETHING HAS TO CHANGE.

(we were in MN in one of my favorite small towns)…YOU ARE HANGING ONTO THE PAST. MEMORIES OF THE BETTER TIMES IN YOUR MARRIAGE WHICH KEEPS YOU HOPEFUL…FOR NOW. EVEN THOUGH HE STILL CHOOSES TO DRINK, ITS A TREAT DURING THE OCCASIONAL GOOD TIMES YOU HAVE/HAD TOGETHER. IN A LOT OF WAYS, YOU MARRIED SOMEONE LIKE YOUR MOTHER WHO DID NOT HAVE THE CAPACITY TO MEET YOUR NEEDS, BOTH BEING ALCOHOLICS.

“THIS TOWN NEVER GREW” YOU HAVE GROWN A PART. HE HAS NOT GROWN SPIRITUALLY, YOU HAVE GROWN INTO A CITY COMPARED TO HIM, (ITS JUST SYMBOLISM…I KNOW YOU ARE NOT A CITY GIRL).

“IN reality” we were not heading towards MO, it was “the opposite way”

IN REALITY, YOU ARE HEADING IN OPPOSITE DIRECTIONS. YOU KNOW THE WAY TO MO. AND YOU KNOW HOW TO GET THERE….HE APPARENTLY DOES NOT KNOW (IN THE DREAM).

…sweat pants (Something I would NEVER wear-UGLY!).

ITS HARD FOR YOU TO LOOK AT THE UGLY TRUTH. IT MEANS CHANGES, UNCERTAINTIES, INSECURITY, INSTABILITY….AND STIRS UP A LOT OF EMOTIONS…WHO WANTS THAT, RIGHT?

The shirt pulled tight across my belly…

THE TUMMY AREA SYMBOLIZES INGESTING, DIGESTING IDEAS, KNOWLEDGE, FOOD FOR THOUGHT, HOW YOU STOMACH THINGS EMOTIONALLY…AGAIN, YOU CARRY A ROLL OF EMOTIONS. THIS ALSO REPRESENTS YOUR “GUT LEVEL” YOUR INTUITION. IT APPEARS YOU WONDER IF PAT IS FEELING THE SAME WAY YOU ARE….DOES HE SEE THE MARRIAGE IS IN DANGER? DOES HE SEE AND FEEL WHAT I AM FEELING?

HE IS DRIVING, ULTIMATELY IN CHARGE OF HIS OWN LIFE DIRECTION. AN INVISIBLE STEERING WHEEL DOES NOT INDICATE MUCH MOTIVATION. ITS LIKE DRIVING IN THE DARK WITH NO HEADLIGHTS. THINKS HE HAS THINGS UNDER CONTROL, BUT IN REALITY HE IS HEADING IN THE WRONG DIRECTION WITH NO ROAD MAP OR PLAN OF ACTION….JUST DRIVING.

I had confidence in him in the way he was driving, just surprised at the method he was using, seems kinda dangerous to me.

YOU PUT A LOT OF FAITH IN HIM TO REACH HIS DESTINATION EVEN THOUGH HE IS HEADED IN THE WRONG DIRECTION, MAKES POOR CHOICES AND PUTS YOU AND THE KIDS IN DANGEROUS SITUATIONS.

The outside was extremely cold, windy, snow, barren again. When I did look out of the window I seen a snowshoe Hare stuck on a post along side the high way, someone trapped it and hung it there-like people leave bags of garbage they pick up along the side. I thought to myself-I would use that rabbit instead of it going to waste, and hey…that is a good idea to metal trap them, faster then live trapping them.

YOUR CHOOSING NOT TO CONFRONT THE SITUATION, HANGING ONTO THE RELATIONSHIP AS THOUGH IT MIGHT FIX ITSELF. THIS JUST PROLONGS THE FEELINGS OF BEING TRAPPED. YOU “WASTE” A LOT OF ENERGY TRYING TO FIX A FROZEN, WINDY, BARREN MARRIAGE. YOU TRY TO THINK UP NEW IDEAS THAT WOULD MAKE THINGS EASIER (METAL TRAPPING) BUT YOUR PLANS NEVER REALLY WORK OUT, BECAUSE YOU CAN’T FIX THE PROBLEM WHEN ONLY ONE PERSON IS DOING ALL THE WORK.

SORRY TO BE THE BARRIER OF BAD NEWS. I ONLY INTERPRET WHAT I SEE. PLEASE LEAVE FEEDBACK WHEN YOU CAN.

SINCERELY,
Dr. Kathy


Sample of “Dream Therapy” process

Wednesday, March 18th, 2009

Black Cat Dream/ with Interpretation
Sample of dream therapy, how it works.

Client sends me this dream: I had the dream last night, thankfully it was fairly simple (lucky you!).There was this black cat, it had a disease, and it had a fish hook hooked through it’s back on top like you would hook a minnow. You know how a cat rubs against your leg friendly like, it was doing that to me, the hook hooked into my right thigh in the middle of it. Being that the hook had barbs at the end, once it goes in, on the way out it tears, I knew that the cat had a disease, and I had to get that hook out of my thigh so I wouldn’t get diseased, so I had to rip it out leaving a big wound, deep enough where I could see the muscle inside. It didn’t bleed much, was a gaping wound. The Dr. stitched it up, but not like normal stitches, you know how you would sew a Teddy bears nose? You would sew many stitches to build up the layers on it’s nose, it looked like that. Oh and the thread was a light burnt orange color.

PHASE ONE: QUESTION & ANSWER PHASE OF DREAM:

DrKathy: What does a black cat symbolize to you?

Client: I think black cats are more fierce then the average cat, more smart, more sly, sneakier, more powerful.

DrKathy: How did you feel about this cat in the dream? Were you afraid, happy, sympathetic toward the cat?

Client: I was like ick, it’s diseased, a little annoyed

Dr Kathy: Are you annoyed with yourself about a certain behavior or character flaw that you want to change?

Client: I know what the sly sneaky ways are, I have been lying on a few things to try and get ahead financial, taxes being one. But I do plan on amending them and doing it right later when we have more money, but have been feeling guilty and know it was wrong.

DrKathy: Tell me what the “hook”, symbolizes to you?

Client: Something to be careful with as they
are sharp and a total pain when in carpet or your clothes.

Dr Kathy: Was the cat a male or a female?

Client: Female, a large female cat.

DrKathy: What does disease mean to you?

Client: Life altering-something to prevent at all
costs if you can, it is debilitating

DrKathy: Was muscle torn or in bad shape?

Client: No, it was perfect, extremely healthy.

DrKathy: Tell me what is special/unique about this Teddy Bear nose stitch?

Client: I find it very hard to do, to make it look nice and even.

DrKathy: “the thread was a light burnt orange color.”
What do you relate this color too?

Client: Old, an old fashioned color, 70’s

**End of Initial Q & A Phase**




PHASE 2 - The Interpretation

Dr Kathy’s replies are in CAPS

I had the dream last night, thankfully it was fairly simple (lucky you!)

EVEN THE SHORTEST DREAMS CAN BE LONG AND DETAILED IN THE INTERPRETATION NOR ARE THEY SIMPLE OR YOU WOULD BE DOING THE INTERPRETATION YOURSELF,SILLY GIRL. I GUESS FOR YOU IT APPEARS SIMPLE BECAUSE IT’S NOT PAGES LONG. LOL

There was this black cat, it had a disease, and it had a fish hook hooked through it’s back on top like you would hook a minnow.>> I think black cats are more fierce then the average cat, more smart, more sly, sneakier, more powerful.

THE BLACK CAT IS YOU. THESE ARE CHARACTERISTICS WITHIN YOU THAT YOU ARE AWARE OF BUT IGNORE OR DENY THEM, CAUSING A DISEASE OF THE SOUL/MIND. THE CAT SHOWS GREAT STRENGTH AND A STRONG WILL BUT CAN BE MANIPULATIVE, SNEAKY, SLY AT TIMES. YOU ARE SMART AND YOU KNOW HOW TO GET OUT OF STICKY SITUATIONS. HOWEVER THIS BEHAVIOR KEEPS YOU FROM THE
AUTHENTIC/GENUINE RIGHTEOUS SELF THAT YOU DESIRE TO BE.

What does the hook, symbolize to you? Something to be careful with as they are sharp and a total pain when in carpet or your clothes.

THIS PARTICULAR CHARACTER FLAW ONLY HURTS YOU IN THE LONG RUN AND MOST LIKELY HURTS OTHERS AS WELL.

Was the cat a male or a female? Female a large female cat.

THIS REPRESENTS YOU AND ITS SIZE SHOWS GREAT STRENGTH, BUT ALSO DISEASED FOR A LONG TIME. I’M ALSO FEELING THAT THESE CHARACTERISTICS ARE LEARNED BEHAVIORS FROM ANOTHER FEMALE, MAYBE YOUR MOTHER? THESE ARE CHARACTER FLAWS HANDED DOWN TO YOU LIKE A DISEASE WOULD PASS DOWN FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION.

You know how a cat rubs against your leg friendly like, it was doing that to me, the hook hooked into my right thigh in the middle of it. Being that the hook had barbs at the end, once it goes in, on the way out it tears,

THIS MAKES ME THINK THAT THE BEHAVIORS HAVE BEEN PASSED ONTO YOU IN AN ENVIROMENT WHERE OTHERS HAVE ACTED THE SAME WAY TO GET THEIR NEEDS MET. IT’S STILL AN OPEN WOUND THAT HAS BEEN BUILT UP OVER THE YEARS AND NEEDS HEALING.

I knew that the cat had a disease, and I had to get that hook out of my thigh so I wouldn’t get diseased, so I had to rip it out leaving a big wound.

THE PERSON THAT YOU ARE IS LIKELY TO SEE THE TRUTH AND WANT TO RIP IT OUT, FIX IT, AND STOP THE CYCLE OF NEGATIVE BEHAVIORS THAT REALLY DON’T WORK FOR YOU ANYMORE.THAT IS A QUALITY I ADMIRE ABOUT YOU…A WILLINGNESS TO CHANGE. BUT WHATEVER THIS DISEASE IS, YOU WON’T BE ABLE TO DO IT ALONE. YOU WILL NEED THE ASSISTANCE OF A DOCTOR (COUNSELOR) TO HELP YOU WORK THROUGH SOME ISSUES, STITCHING IT UP DIFFERENTLY THAN OTHER COUNSELORS (DRS) HAVE DONE IN THE PAST.

What does “disease” mean to you? Life altering-something to prevent at all costs if you can, it is debilitating.

GOOD,YOU ARE AWARE OF YOUR SKILL OF BEING SLY, MANIPULATIVE ETC TO GET YOUR NEEDS MET, BUT YOU ALSO KNOW ITS NOT THE RIGHT WAY TO GO. THERE IS THAT PART OF YOU THAT WANTS TO DO RIGHT BY GOD AND DO HIS WILL. THIS IS ABOUT CLEANING OUR SPIRITUAL HOUSE OF DISEASE. YOU ARE NOT ALONE, AS CHRISTIANS, THIS IS PART OF THE PURGING OF THE OLD SELF AND “GROWING IN OUR SALVATION,” BECOMING MORE LIKE CHRIST.

Was muscle torn or in bad shape? No, it was perfect, extremely healthy

EXCELLENT! YOUR MUSCLE SYMBOLIZES GREAT STRENGTH, ESPECIALLY BEING IN THE THIGH. YOU HAVE THE MUSCLE TO OVERCOME THIS.

What is special/unique about this Teddy bear nose stitch?
>I find it very hard to do, to make it look nice and even.

MEANING YOU CANT KEEP UP THIS FAÇADE, ITS TOO HARD TO KEEP UP THIS IMAGE, PRETENDING ALL IS OKAY. IT CANT JUST BE SEWN ANY OLD WAY OR COVERED UP WITH LAYERS OF DENIAL, ITS NOT A QUICK FIX, ITS GOING TO TAKE SOME WORK TO MASTER/ HEAL THIS DISEASE.

…and the thread was a light burnt orange color. What do you relate this color too? old, old fashioned color, 70’s

AGAIN THIS IS OLD THINKING PATTERNS THAT USED TO WORK FOR YOU THAT NO LONGER WORK FOR YOU ANY LONGER. STILL ACTING IN THE OLD WAY OF DOING THINGS. A NEED TO DEVELOP A DIFFERENT APPROACH TO GETTING YOUR NEEDS MET. THE DREAM IS NOT SPECIFIC ABOUT WHAT AREAS IN YOUR LIFE YOU NEED TO WORK ON. I SUSPECT THERE IS MORE TO IT THAN THE CHARACTERISTIC OF THE BLACK CAT HERE…MANIPULATIVE,SLY, ETC.

I HOPE THIS HELPED AND I LOOK FORWARD TO YOUR RESPONSE ANY ANY QUESTIONS YOU MIGHT HAVE REGARDING THIS INTERPRETATION.

PHASE THREE – CLIENTS RESPONSE TO INTERPRETATION

Dear DrKathy,
I know what the sly sneaky ways are, I have been lying on a few things to try and get ahead financial, taxes being one. But I do plan on amending them and doing it right later when we have more money, but have been feeling guilty and know it was wrong.

Yes my Mom was extremely manipulative and abusive. I was withheld food until I would go buy her stupid beer & booze when I was little. She made me walk to the resort about a 1/2 mile away with a note to get her the booze, I was like 5, sometimes it was so cold and so much snow I didn’t want to go, then she wouldn’t let me eat or drink till I did. That was in MN where we lived at the time.

Then she would stuff me full of beer cans when I came home from the liquor store, inside my coat arms. socks etc…so she could get them past my dad so he wouldn’t beat her. That was extremely terrorizing, waiting in terror that I wouldn’t walk naturally or a can would fall and then I’d be dead. Those are just the icing on the cake…..much more………

What do I do now, ask for forgiveness and avoid that way in the future? So I still have the dysfunction (disease) to work through? I knew that, with what was done to me when I was young until she died. I probably will never process it all, but I have been working on it since I became aware in 1989.

I’m like WHY lord, why do you have to bring that up-old painful memory’s, but I know why, but I don’t have to like it, I am sure you know, it hurts real bad.

I think with the amount of dreaming I have been doing and this family history we should start counseling, being that you know me well enough by now through the net. What do you think?

FINAL PHASES: THERAPY BEGINS

This client and I had further emails before the decision of getting therapy took place. This was a $30.00 interpretation which took about 3 hours from beginning to end. So whether it is a paragraph or a page, the dream is worth the price of understanding its message.

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Not every client who sends a dream needs therapy. My goal of sharing this particular dream with you was to give you an idea of how the dream therapy works. My client has chosen to continue our work together so that she may have healing and closure. However, some dreams are matter of fact and offer solutions without the need of a counselor.

I want you to notice the metaphors in this dream and the importance of me asking the dreamer what those metaphors/symbols meant to her. The Holy Spirit (our higher level of consciousness) speaks to us in a language that we, the dreamer, ultimately understand. A language that takes time to understand its meaning but you already know it, you just have to ask the right questions.

As our Therapy went on, I had this client keep a daily journal and a daily dream record of which is to be mailed to me daily. By evaluating her dreams and her thoughts, I am able to discern her progress and areas of deficiency, that need to be addressed.

I hope this gives my readers a better understanding of Dream Therapy and its value.

Sincerely

DrKathy




How do you tell the difference between a familiar spirit and a visiting relative, in a dream?

Sunday, February 15th, 2009

Dear Dr Kathy,

I have a question…I saw one time on your site that sometimes your relatives or something can visit you in your dreams…how? I’ve been trying to research in the bible but its not easy…I know for a saint to be absent in the body is to be present with the lord and God is the only spirit that is omnipresent, right. So can entities visit? What if they weren’t saved, do they Go straight to hell or no because there is an appointed time? How then do you tell the difference between that and a familiar spirit?

Hi Brenda,
Boy is this a loaded question!
There are things that occur that are not written in scripture but still happen. We don’t know much about Jesus as a child but we can be sure he had a childhood knowing the fact he was
born an infant, being raised to be an adult.

A familiar spirit would be a liar, giving false information. A spirit that has crossed over and is with God can only reveal truth. It is important that we test these spirits to know who they
actually represent.

If a deceased relative shows up in a dream, sometimes its symbolic, representing similar characteristics of which you both have.

Our God is omnipresent, but souls/spirits have the ability to travel the universe at will through meditation or by dreaming. You are correct in saying “I know for a saint to be absent in the body is to be present with the lord,” however when we are in a dream state, we are in “the spirit.” It is only our bodies that need rest. The spirit needs no rest. So while the body sleeps, the spirit wanders.

An example of deceased visitation would be when Moses and Elijah were visiting Jesus on the mount as a way of comfort before his death. Jesus spoke to the spirit of lazarus when he
commanded him to rise up and walk.

As far as family from hades, they would need the permission of God for a returned visit. I suspect the answer is oftentimes ‘NO” Therefore if we don’t get visits from some family, you may consider their where their resting place is.

I hope I answered your question. It wasn’t one that can be answered yes or no.

Sincerely,
Dr Kathy


Where Do Dreams Come From?

Monday, September 10th, 2007

“And he said, Hear now my words; If there be a prophet among you, I the Lord will make myself known unto him in a vision, and will speak unto him in a dream.”

- Numbers 12:6

The Lord speaks to us in ways of which we often miss. He has many ways of speaking, including; Bible verses, prayer and silent meditation, circumstances, through gifts of the Spirit, common sense wisdom, conviction, His characteristics modeled by Jesus and other great Masters/leaders, His peace in times of turmoil, nature and the wonders of the universe and in DREAMS while we sleep.

Why is it that some men (believers and non-believers), seem to attract success, power, wealth and attainment, with very little conscious effort; while others conquer with great difficulty; yet others, fail altogether to reach their ambitions, desires and ideals. Why is it that God seems to bless some and not others? There are both rich and successful men of the faith as well as men who don’t practice the faith but believe in something or someone higher then themselves. We read in scriptures of men in power, (such as Pharaoh, other Kings), who appeared successful yet did not practice the same rituals as those who believed in Jehovah. These same men dreamt at night and heard from God and without question, sought to find the interpretation of their dreams.

Therefore, we must consider that God speaks to all mankind, even those of different faiths. Our spiritual journey and personal growth is not that of physical nature, else the most perfect men, physically, would be the most successful. The journey is much deeper then that. I believe, the difference resides in the mind! The mind is the creative force, the key to wisdom and understanding.

Dreams come from the three levels of consciousness: The conscious/carnal mind, the subconscious/the soul and the super-conscious/ or what I like to refer to, God-conscious. The Bible is very emphatic about the need to seek within, to transform the (carnal) mind, to find the kingdom of God, and to be more like Christ (casting all your thoughts under the obedience of Christ).

To develop the characteristics of Christ we must begin the transformation process from within. To reach the highest level of understanding (God conscious) we must clear out the junk on the two lower levels of the mind, the conscious and the subconscious. Your dreams will reveal what needs to be cleaned out. As you remove the old negative thoughts, you make room for a higher level of wisdom and understanding. When you begin to see through glass clearly, old things do pass away and understanding spiritual wisdom brings peace and spiritual prosperity.

The book of JOB contains some of the best poetry ever written. JOB often referred to “nature” and the things of the world to describe the many characteristics of God and the journey of man. My favorite poem is in chapter 28, which is a metaphoric poem about “wisdom.” The analogy of mining is used to express the journey of finding wisdom, which includes; a dark tunnel, far from people, searching the source of the rivers which brings hidden things to light. “Where does wisdom come from? Where does understanding dwell? Man does not comprehend its worth; it cannot be found in the land of the living It is hidden from the eyes of every living thing, concealed from the birds of the air,” (verses 12,13,21).

These are great metaphors often revealed in dreams, which symbolize someone soul searching, chipping away at the diamond in the rough, tunneling through the dirt in dark unexplored places of the conscious and unconscious mind, not knowing what you’ll find once inside. Wisdom and understanding are hidden within the God-conscious of every human being. Those who seek it, find the diamond (the authentic self), and the Gold, (wisdom of God).

It is within our minds, therefore, which overcomes environment and every other obstacle in the path of men. When the creative power of “thought transformation” is fully understood, its effect will be seen to be miraculous. But such results cannot be secured without proper application, perseverance, and meditation. The seeker of truth will find that the laws governing in the mental and spiritual world are as fixed and infallible as in the material world. To obtain divine wisdom, one must know the law and comply with it.

The law I speak of is a new covenant, (which was fulfilled in Christ), and it resides in the heart of man, (Jeremiah 31:33-34, Hebrews 8:8-12). “I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God and they will be my people. No longer will man teach his neighbor, or a man his brother, saying, ‘know the Lord,’ because they will know me, from the least of them to the greatest, declares the Lord,” (Jeremiah 31:33-34).

The seeker who learns that power comes from within, that he is weak only because he has depended others to make his choices for him, and who unhesitatingly begins to listen to that internal voice, begins instantly transforming the mind, making the right decisions for himself, and begins to witness miracles transpiring in his life.

Of course, the conscious and the subconscious mind can also create negative conditions just as readily as favorable conditions. When we consciously or unconsciously visualize every kind of lack, limitation and discord, we create these conditions; this is what many people are unconsciously doing all the time. Then they ask, “why me, Lord?” Then when God attempts to answer that question through visions and dreams, you ignore the message, giving credit to that spicy sandwich you ate before bed.

It is a scientific fact that everyone dreams, every night. Studies from the Mount Sinai Institute of Sleep Disorders, have proven that those who are deprived of sleep are mentally unstable. They concluded in their studies that, “ the Purpose of sleep, is to dream!” Yes, the body needs rest, but it’s the mind that needs restoration while the body sleeps. Not everyone remembers dreaming, but it’s happening none the less.


What is the Purpose of Dreaming?

Sunday, August 12th, 2007

Question:

Dr Kathy,

Can you tell me what the purpose of dreaming is all about?

Answer:

Good Question! However, to answer your question, I’d have to write a book (I’m working on it), so here goes the paraphrased version…

Dreams are a supernatural device used to assist us in the continued process of spiritual growth and healing. They come in the form of an interactive movie, a prophetic vision or a scary nightmare. Their meanings can be literal, symbolic or spiritual in nature.

The purpose of dreaming is to help mankind to develop a higher understanding about self and the universe (GOD). I believe that ANGELS are the messengers who whisper words or give us visions in the night.

Can we be deceived by negative entities who tempt us in our sleep or try to scare us? Yes, there are fallen angels who seek to destroy and confuse a believer as well as non-believers. However, a simple prayer before sleep will stop these kinds of dreams and keep you safe from negative influences.

Try adding this prayer or these words to your nightly ritual before bed:

I cast all my thoughts under the obedience of Christ and believe the word of God, that NO weapon formed against me shall prosper. I pray the protection of my mind as I sleep and ask that only messages sent from God the Father, the son, or the Holy Ghost, be allowed to filter through my mind as I sleep.”

Granted, not all crazy, silly or scary dreams are from a negative entity. There are the common “spicy burrito dreams” (indigestion) or the “busy beaver dreams,” caused by worry or stress), and other dreams that come from the lower levels of the conscious or subconscious mind, created by you, from your thoughts.

For example, the last thoughts before bed can bring forth a dream relating to those thoughts. If you say to yourself, “I shouldn’t have eaten that burrito before bed,” then you might dream about it, (or something ridiculous like your heart being on fire), because you are experiencing some indigestion or heart burn.

If you are worried about a project due at work or school, this worry can show itself in your dream. Most common is a fear of failing a test, or being late for class and missing the test altogether. I usually dream of being busy and wake up as tired as when I fell asleep. Our busy minds and spiritual soul don’t stop working just because the body needs rest.

If you happen to be one of those people who are affected by horror movies, then watching one before bed could easily trigger a nightmare. this is a quick fix…don’t watch any more horror movies…silly ;).

I hope this answer helped somewhat!

Thanks for writing in!

Dr Kathy


Children’s Nightmares

Sunday, August 12th, 2007

One out of every four children have nightmares more than once a week. Most nightmares happen very late in the sleep period (usually between 4 and 6 a.m.). Your child may wake up and come to you for comfort. Usually, he or she will be able to tell you what happened in the dream and why it was scary. Your child may have trouble going back to sleep. Your child might have the same dream again on other nights.

Nightmares affect 20 to 39 percent of children between five and 12 years of age. Contrary to popular belief, frequent nightmares in children do not always suggest underlying psychopathology unless some type of abuse or neglect has been reported. Nightmares are often described by creative children who demonstrate “poor boundaries” and become easily bullied, manipulated and abused. Creative children, (like creative adults), tend to dream more often then those that view the world as black and white.

The imagination of creative children can be quite extraordinary. They may wake with a very vivid and detailed story. I’ve actually made a list of children’s books I’d like to write based on some of the dreams my younger clients have told me about. Because of their sensitive nature, they can have some horrific nightmares, sometimes based on imagined fear. This child will often ask the question, “what if?” based on something that concerns him, (the little worrier). If the parent or adult caretaker ignores the question, the child may obsess about the possible conclusions, of which can be very scary. This same child should not be allowed to watch scary movies or play scary games of any kind before bed. They are much more vulnerable then the left brained math genius and are capable of dreaming up their own monsters without the help of outside stimulation.

Some children have a different kind of scary dream called a “night terror.” Night terrors happen during deep sleep (usually between 1 and 3 a.m.). A child having a night terror will often wake up screaming. He or she may be sweating and breathing fast. Your child’s pupils (the black center of the eye) may look larger than normal. At this point, your child may still be asleep, with open eyes. He or she will be confused and might not answer when you ask what’s wrong. Your child may be difficult to wake and, on awakening, he or she usually won’t remember the night terror.

Nightmares and night terrors don’t happen as much as children get older. Often, nightmares and night terrors stop completely when your child is a teenager. Some people, especially people who are imaginative and creative, may keep having nightmares when they are adults.

A child who dreams “often” about drowning, getting killed, getting lost or being chased by a monster may be experiencing some emotional problems and parents need to seek professional help whenever reoccurring nightmares such as these are disclosed.

However, most often, nightmares and night terrors in children are usually not caused by mental or physical illness. Nightmares often happen after a stressful, physical or emotional event which could be as simple as losing a t-ball game. In the first six months after the event, a child might have nightmares while he or she gets used to what happened in the event. If nightmares keep happening and disturb your child’s sleep, they can affect your child’s ability to function during the day. Talk with your doctor about whether treatment will help your child.

NOTE: A child who can’t remember any dreams, ever, may be depressed or suppressing a traumatic event. For children not to dream at all, is very rare, almost unheard of.

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